Monday, April 22, 2013



After church on Sunday I plopped Little Liv on my bed to take some pictures of her in her cute little dress.  I'm definitely no girl baby dresser expert but I do have fun putting her in the dresses I do have.  And taking pictures of her in them because she will probably not get to wear them that many times.  And they're so cute and I want to remember them all.  





She is a really good sport for me.  She is actually a really good baby.  I was pretty worried during that first couple of months when she was fussy a lot, but now that she can be entertained by things other than food and sleep she doesn't usually fuss unless she is really sleepy.  She has been sleeping pretty good through the night, from her last bottle at like nine or nine thirty until about seven thirty in the morning.  She even manages to sleep through the early morning disruptions by the boys who get up at six and are constantly in and out of my room yelling, crying, whining, begging, and making all other kinds of noise.  I wish I could sleep through all of that. 

The other two are giving me a run for my money, especially the precious middle child.  I'm not sure if its a mixture of exhaustion from the wear and tear of just being a mom, or Brice being gone a lot, or maybe just hormonal changes, but I have been on a roller coaster ride these last couple of weeks.  I've been pumping instead of nursing since Liv never really was able to latch right, but I think I'm ready to give that up.  Which is a process in itself.  But then maybe my body will get all the way back to normal and I'll only be crazy once a month, and I'll be able to know what's causing the craziness, when it's coming, and prepare accordingly.  Sometimes I feel like I should be some sort of wild animal and a warning bell should be sounded when I'm  on the loose and all the village people (like little rowdy boys) should run to their rooms for cover when I get in my "bad mood". I hope I'm not scarring them too bad.     


Today I listened to a talk from Elder Holland that I saw a link to on Pinterest about motherhood.  I locked myself in my bedroom, while Cameron pounded on the door nonstop, and listened to it and cried.  But then I felt better.  

Being a mom of little kids is just hard.  I know it's hard for everyone.  Right?  Just some people make it look so easy.  This morning as I looked around at the piles of laundry, and the dirty kitchen, and the boys room--where the floor couldn't even be seen-- to my room--where you have to step strategically like Jenga to keep it from coming down--and the bathroom that was spotless on Saturday and now a disaster again--I just felt so discouraged.  I know I always feel better when the house is in order, but that rarely happens.  And I try to reassemble it in the evenings but that's when I'm the most tired and once I sit down, getting back up to clean is like actual physical pain.  

But I try to tell myself that it won't always be like this.  And I'll miss the markings of little kids everywhere.  I'll miss their stickers on the wall and dirty underwear under my pillow (yeah I don't know how that happened).  Right now I don't see that I'll miss it.  But I guess I probably will. In the meantime I suppose there is nothing to do but carry on and hope that I'm doing an okay job.   And count my many blessings.  Because I know I do have a lot of them.


4 comments:

The Sandalls said...

You're doing better thank okay, you're doing an amazing job! I know it's selfish of me or weird or something but I like to hear that I'm not the only one who loses it on a daily basis and worries that I'm ruining my children. All we can do is try to do and be a better mother tomorrow! I always remind myself that I will miss this craziness too, of course that's after I've reacted in a way I wish I wouldn't have. Miss u and love seeing ur beautiful pictures. Can't wait to get the girls together! And of course the other four!

Tyrell said...

You seriously blow me away. When things get a little crazy around here I can only wonder "how does Leilani do it!" I am being so serious. I have no idea how you survive every day.

And if it's of any help at all, formula has been the most amazing thing in the world. I was a wreck both times I switched our babies to formula and even had MULTIPLE relapses and emotional explosions- but when it was all said and done it was the best thing ever. If we have a third I am more than positive s/he will be another formula baby after the first few weeks/months.

Hang in there. Someday you will look back and laugh and be surprised that you survived!

Celeste said...

I agree with Emily...it's so nice to hear about the good, the bad and the ugly from other moms of little ones. It helps me feel normal! =) I had a hard time doing formula but it definitely has its perks...daddy gets to help a lot and it's so much easier to leave her with people. It's good for my sanity too.

Melanie said...

You're doing a great job Leilani! Your kids are at the hardest ages right now -- all 3 still so needy and dependent on you, it's exhausting 24/7. For me it lasts about a year, and then I finally get that first night of uninterrupted sleep and it feels SO good! Plus you've been pumping all this time -- holy cow woman! Just take it a day at a time. I'm loving all your pictures of Olivia! And the boys too :)